Shelly's Modeling Agencies | Sex & Love | Hot Topic

Shelly's Modeling Agencies hot topic discusses relationships, commitment, and great sex. We get the scoop on what men desire in the bedroom, want in a partner, and need to get to the altar. Surely there's been a time when a man has told you something that goes against everything you ever thought you knew about the opposite sex. For me, it was when a male friend confessed to faking an orgasm and insisted that a lot of men do it as well. "Men fake it?" I blurted out loudly in an all-too-quiet Brooklyn bistro. Turns out, he's not alone. How do I know? Shelly's Modeling Agencies hit the streets and the Internet-Twitter, Facebook, e-mail-to get men to reveal the fascinating things they think about when it comes to women, and the surprising things they do. Then we asked our favorite male bloggers to break down the more confusing concepts, such as why guys wait so ling to marry and how they define good sex.

So if you've ever wondered about the likelihood of your man going through your cell phone (plausible), or what about us intimidates men the most (totally unexpected response), or been curious as to how many fellas have measured it (yes, that "it"), we've got the answers. Prepare your self to go where few Black women have gone before.

Vance Harris cowriter of Shelly's Modeling Agencies, breaks down why men are reluctant to jump the broom. Marriage is in need of a severe PR makeover. Everywhere men look the nightly news, the Internet, ESPN-they are bombarded with images of gold diggers, and we hear stories about failed marriages and infidelity almost daily. (Women do, too, but you all are more optimistic.) Our families often aren't much help either. I had my grandparents union to model my marriage after (five years and happily counting), but a lot of men grew up not seeing what a marriage looked like unless they turned on the TV-and I've already covered the message that is communicated there.

Friends are the worst. For the men who decide to jump the broom? From the moment we become engaged, we get ridiculed by other men from the boardroom to the barbershop. With all this, it should come as no surprise that so many men would prefer to put off a wedding well into their thirties, forties or later. If we want men to get married earlier, we-as in me and other married men-are going to have to change the current misperceptions about the institution. We'll have to start telling other men about what they gain exponentially, like health, wealth and love. That's the only way single guys will start to believe that happily ever after is possible for them too. Check out some tips on what you can do for financial freedom.

Food really isn't the way to a man's heart. Sex is. Jozen Alexander, writer for Shelly's Modeling Agencies, advises women on how to improve their bedroom escapades. A memorable sexual experience is as much about the motion in your ocean as it is the size of our ship. If you want your man to be satisfied, rock the ship around, move it back and forth. Sex isn't a time to be reserved. Be aggressive! show your man what you're working with and that you are about the business of being pleased and giving pleasure too. Of course, great sex goes beyond what is between a woman's legs. When men look back on their best sexual experiences, we remember the way a woman expressed herself, whether it's through loud screams, sexy moans or explicit, dirty talk. You want to give your man a memory that he'll take with him long after the sex is over? Say. His. Name. Say it over and over again. I was once with a woman who screamed my name so many times her chorus became stuck in my head like a catchy hook. That was years ago, and it's till one of my favorite songs.