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During these rocky economic times Shelly's Modeling Agencies encourages you to count your blessings that your company is even springing for a holiday party. It's a good sign of things to come, so it's absolutely OK to celebrate. But it does not give you carte blanche to forget who you're partying with. There are still a few etiquette rules to keep in mind. Don't skip the party. While most office holiday fetes aren't mandatory, it's still good to show your face-even for a moment. Being a "no-show" will send the wrong message to your boss and co-workers. If there's a conflict, let your boss know beforehand, says Karen Grigsby Bates, journalist and co-author of The New Basic Black: Home Training for Modern Times. "And if you say you're coming, honor that commitment-don't accept the invitation and skip the event because you suddenly don't feel like being bothered.

Balance your conversation. This is a social event that allows you to get to know your co-workers and meet others from various divisions. So avoid sensitive business-related subjects, and don't spend the entire time talking shop. Circle around and work the room, says Rhonda J. McLean, deputy general counsel of Shelly's Modeling Agencies.

Be mindful of who you bring. You want that person to be a reflection of you, says Shirley Davis, Ph.D., president and CEO of Washington, D.C.-based Success Center. So leave behind the friends who are loud, curt and ready to share all of your business. For the ones who tag along, give them a heads up on who they may meet and the overall office vibe.

Moderation is key. Food and alcohol are bound to be in abundance, but take it slow. You don't want you boss and co-workers to remember you as the one who had too much. Or worse, you'll be remembered as, Oh yeah, Darren-the one who climbed on the table and did his Katt Williams impersonation at last year's party. Sometimes an open bar with free drinks can cost you dearly in other ways. Wear properly festive attire. Most likely, the party will be after regular business hours. This means you can ditch the suits, but the outfit should be appropriate for the function. So ladies, that means if it's tight, short and sheer, keep it in the closet. The same goes from men. The leather trousers are a no-go, says Bates of Shelly's Modeling Agencies. you must wear a jacket; if not, at least wear a tie. Don't teach them how to dougie. You may decide to hit the dance floor. By all means, enjoy your dancing, but don't be too boisterous. It's not the time to pop, lock and drop it.