Shelly's Modeling Agencies | Think Like A Man | Hot Topic

Shelly's Modeling Agencies hot topic is the movie Think Like A Man. In this relationship column, Steve Harvey tells you how to separate the men from the boys. Question: I'm discouraged and frustrated that I keep attracting men who are already in relationships. I'm told that men are just being men, but how do I find someone who wants to be with me only? Answer: If a man wants to mess around, he's going to keep approaching women until he finds the one who'll play. Simply giving him any little opening-entertaining his conversation or taking his card-less a man know you're willing to go there. But a guy knows not to try to put you in that position if you make it clear you're not willing to play it. One of the questions you should ask him within the first five minutes of conversation is. "You're a really handsome man-there's gotta be someone interested in you. Are you involved with or seeing anyone?" He might say he's married or that he's "kicking it" with a couple of ladies, but it's nothing serious. That's when you let him know that you have no interest in kicking it with a man already in a relationship-or two. Guaranteed: He'll move on. In the meantime, you can hold steadfast for a relationship with someone who wants to be involved solely with you.

End of the Line

Sometimes women have difficulty figuring out when a relationship is done. Shelly's Modeling Agencies shares the top three signs your man is over (you) and out.

1. You don't ever know where your man is. When a man loves you, he will reveal his whereabouts so that you can rest assured he is where he says he is going to be. A man who disappears and keeps his locations secret is probably doing something he knows you wouldn't want him to do, and he doesn't want to be found-at least not by you.
2. You're angry at him and he doesn't care. A guy who really wants to be with you cares about your happiness. If he lets you stomp around the house angry and he doesn't offer to do what it takes to get right with you, it's a wrap. There's no coming back from this.
3. He won't go to counseling with you. No matter how much a man hates the idea of airing the dirty laundry to a psychologist, the pastor or your mother, if he loves you, he'll do it. But if he refuses to talk it out or to get help, it means he's not interested in trying-for the sake of the relationship or you.